Is Presence Enough?

Philosopher and psychotherapist Eugene Gendlin wrote:

"The essence of working with another person is to be present as a living being. And that is lucky, because if we had to be smart, or good, or mature, or wise, then we would probably be in trouble. But, what matters is not that. What matters is to be a human being with another human being, to recognize the other person as another being in there."

Gendlin, E.T. (1990). The small steps of the therapy process: How they come and how to help them come.

That is lucky for us, because if we had to be "smart, or good, or mature, or wise," it would be difficult to be a parent or help a friend in need while we figure out our own stuff.  Any time we work with people, it can be a relief that we can get far with just our presence and attention.

Do you agree?  Do we have to be something "more" to help someone, or can our presence be enough?

Warm regards,

-Mariya